At many a time we think there is no love left in this woeful world. But inorder to fill up even a tangible amount of love in this world we need to choose violence. Many must be confused by what am saying but it is simple as that when somebody forces you drive away from the path of love then you have no choice left other than taking violence because such a sadistic man can harm the world 10000 times more than what you want to offer. So only protagonist are loved and antagonist are hated even in the film. Figuring out the thin line between love and hate.
It was Billy’s last day in office, Billy is a man who is evicted from his office due to his naive straight forward attitude. He was not depressed because he lost his job but he was depressed since he didn’t have a purpose and family. But Billy was slightly fucked off by the fact that he had only received final settlement for 2 months. With bitterness surrounding him he started to drive to his single bedroom apartment located in Adayar, Chennai. On the way he saw a writers cafe. He was attracted to that cafe not because of the crowd but because of the name. So he went inside and ordered cappuccino. While he was waiting for the order he saw Anton checkvo’s picture printed on the wall. The next moment he found his purpose, he wanted to be a writer. After having the coffee he paid his bill and turned towards the door. The cafe owner was rushing towards him and said Sir here is the two rupees which you have paid extra. With a slight smile he accepted it and started driving to home. The cafe owner’s behaviour gave him some hope that there is still some humanity alive in this fast paced world. Soon the next day he started to write short stories and posted it online. Slowly after two weeks he had twenty followers who liked his blog. But he approached all the publishers in India but everybody turned down due to his lack of experience. A month passed and it was Billy’s time to work for his survival so with all the money he had he decided to open a small cafe. He also decided to open it in front of writers cafe in Adyar. A month passed and Billy’s cafe did well and Billy started to earn some amount for his survival. Annoyed by the fact the fact that the his cafe’s profit had gone down by 10 percent the writers cafe owner, decided to shut down Billy’s cafe. Since he was a billionaire and had enough influence he asked the local food inspector to file a case and shut down Billy’s cafe. So happened next day Billy saw a seal with notice on his cafe shutter that it has been sealed due to unhygienic environment. Billy some how found that it was writer’ s cafe owner was the behind. Furious Billy stormed into writers cafe and hit him with a stick which made his one eye severely damaged. The police arrested Billy for his act of violence and imprisoned him for a year. In jail Billy met Geoffrey who was a famous author. Their friendship bonded very well. Once both were out of the prison both co-wrote and published a novel which made them billionaires. The next day the writers cafe owner printed a poster of Billy in his cafe.
Till this point of the day I thought a real man makes his own luck but I was taken to a ride by life. I was in that roller coaster ride, ignorantly believing that am the master of my destiny. Everyone who thinks he is the master of his destiny and he is solely responsible for his success and failure, should give a moment and think, at the end of the day you will be happy only if something goes well, it could be your favourite team winning the league, your love is happy. If you still think you are an introvert then you need some space which is quite but what if some creates a chaos out in that place. These definitions are only limited to our beliefs. No man is an island to succeed and at the end of the day there is some driving force who controls us. So In order to be happy at majority of times we should be open to all experience and we should take life as it comes to US.👍
Civilisations have not grown but only changed. I still remember before the birth of Computer and Internet people were living happily and with dignity. I am also not denying the fact that people are not happy now. But the way we find happiness has changed. For instance digital era and online games have made us isolated but we still find happiness in that where as in earlier days playing rugby football cricket made us happy. Just stop a moment and think we cannot buy happiness instead we can only feel it. Money can give you pleasure but not happiness. The irony is that I am posting it using my iPhone. Think about this crazy post and you will find the purpose of your life.
A man is measured by his wealth and a woman is measured by her beauty. Then what is love, friendship and marriage. Are they tools to unite wealth and beauty. Nope indeed they are tools used to empathise man and woman. But I agree to one fact that opposite genders get attracted easily. Yeah you may think that the attraction is love but I am not going to disagree the fact which is love. If you think love and sex are concurrent events. Then you are absolutely wrong. Love is an ambiguous tool which plays a major fact in both male and female. Friendship should be also made as a synonym to love. Because love is what which makes you to connect emotionally with a person and understand him who he is and what he has gone through. So a man and women can be true friends only when they both empathise at each other. This moment happened to me and made me realise that woman is far beyond love and sex. Thank you to my Lila. Friend for lifetime.👍
Many times I have thought why am writing this blog but every time I put a why I have been taken down by a hit. For some people why is the cause of all miseries. After one month of taking a pause I have realised there is no purpose for me to write this blog but except the fact it gives me pleasure. So sometimes we have to accept the fact that being rational is just a key which opens the door to oblivion. If an rational person has to write this blog he will think whether there is any materialistic advantage which he gains by writing or else it will be waste of time. But in the process he forgets that he has been a victim of living the life of others. I have to acknowledge the fact that time waits for no one but so life. If you don’t express yourself honestly you are living the life of others at the end in death bed you will realise oblivion which ultimately destroys the purpose of your goal. Remember the fact that Dead is the only destination which everyone has. So in this limited life make use of your time to fulfil your purpose which is nothing but not knowing what happens next and at the same time not going to oblivion instead take life as it comes to you. So as Jack Dawson said I am really excited to see what happens next and who am gonna wind up with.
#Be who you are and you will become your own admirer. Forget the fact that Man is a social animal and realise that you are a lion which rules its own destiny.
This is based on analysis of characters of protagonist of landmark films like The Godfather and Taxi Driver. Michael gets bullied by his own family when he says that I will kill those who threatens my father’s life. But at the end he stands tall like his father like a Godfather. In Taxi driver when Travis decides to save the life of a minor prostitute, even that minor girl laughs at him asking are you sane but at the end Travis becomes a monstrous hero. Rocky oh my GOD no other film can influence underdogs, than this in first scene rocky is called as bum by an unknown lady but he stands head to head with the world heavyweight champion till the last round. These things are also possible in reality if you look at the life of Sylvester Stallone, Oprah Winfrey you come to know the odds they faced before reaching this position. Combination of emotional intelligence and hard work can change anyone’s life drastically. So stay there and hang on for one more round with self belief and take risks with emotional intelligence, you will overcome the naysayers and they will become your admirers.
#This post may contradict my previous posts but mandatory in this so called depression era.👍